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I remember for many years I'd say, "Just tell me how long I need to grieve for. I can do this on a schedule." Oh, how grief surprises us. Oh, how the Spirit envelops us. Thank for for the reminder to be kind to ourselves and others as we traverse the ebbs and flows of grief in a fallen world.

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Hey Brianna, there were so many days I remember sitting in a therapy session thinking, “when will I be better?” The more I let go of trying to “be better” the more healing I experienced. Grief is a tricky thing. I’m thankful for your beautiful writing.

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Yes, the less I tried to control the timing, the more I was able to be in the healing presence of God without my agenda and expectations. What a gift!

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This is so good. I have forwarded the article to two friends whose young adult children have died. Your words are powerful.

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Thanks so much, Denise. I'll be praying they are comforted.

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Thank you, Ryan. Words of life and hope. I have the audio on replay.

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It’s comforting to know that there is no time table to healing. It looks different for everyone everywhere all the time.

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100%. I love the way that alleviates any pressure on us to “be better.” We can heal at our own pace.

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